i think it is ok to wear panties. its only underwear, i mean today they make girls underwear to look just like mens underwear, there are "boy shorts" to look like a mans so if people call us guys gay for wearing womens panties then what do you call women that wear mans undies, its just an article of clothing its no big deal .we wear panties bikini swim suits anything as long as you comfy then just wear it. i do it all the time im married and my wife does not care what i wear i wear lingerie and all it makes the sexual part very romantic and hot so guys go all the way with panties or whatever else its worth it