I got married in 2004, but dated 2 years prior to my marriage.  During the dating period I would occasionally see a his credit card statements showing late payment fees.  There were a couple of times he forgot to pay the water bill...and had to take a shower at my apartment.  HHHmmmMMmmm.  The signs were very clear, but when he proposed, I thought that maybe if I handled our finances all will be well.  Two years of dating was not enough to know this man.

So I did take care of all the bills, and he gave his contribution to the household expenses...then he started not being able to give the amount we agreed on, or he would get sick and not be able to contribute anything at all, then later just said he didn't have the money.  Ok...so I had to use my student loans to cover for our expenses as well as my credit cards...

Yes, I did get a divorce, a little too late.  With alot of debt.  We filed our taxes together since we were together for the most part last year (2007).  I have come to find out that he was not giving me any money because he was putting it away for himself.  Yes yes.  Greedy selfish son of a bitch. 

Oh well.  I guess I'll just have to work on paying off my debts.  At least, I still have my humor, my dignity, my dog and my beauty (hehe).  I can still love and know that I will be loved by someone.   He may have his money...but his money won't be caressing him at night or taking care of him when he is sick or showing affection on Valentine's Day.  And he may also find someone else but I don't give a F*CK...because you know why?  He sSUCKS in bed.

The Best Thing I Got From the Marriage