K&E Bridal Shop Many couples are now incorporating unity candles into their wedding
ceremonies. Some churches now have specific wording that can be used
for this portion of the ceremony, which uses two taper candles,
representing the couples as individuals, and a single center candle,
symbolizing their commitment to each other. The two tapers may be lit
prior to the ceremony by attendants, or may be lit by the parents of
the bride and groom during the unity candle portion of the ceremony.
The bride and groom each take one taper, and blending the flames
together, light the single center candle, which is often decorated. A
few tips about using a unity candle: Be sure there is a place set up
for the candles prior to the ceremony, such as a small table near the
altar. Light the wicks of all three candles for a moment prior to the
ceremony. New candles can be stubborn the first time they're used.
Remember to have matches! Ask a groomsman to tuck some into his pocket,
just in case.The bride and groom should decide before the ceremony
whether they will extinguish their tapers after lighting the unity
candle, or whether they will simply place them back in their holders
still lit. Either is appropriate. Talk through this portion of the
ceremony during the wedding rehearsal to make sure everyone knows what
they're supposed to be doing. This is especially important if parents
or other family members will be involved.
Guide ID: 10000000001689688Guide created: 08/31/06 (updated 05/09/08)