The Meaning Of Unity Candle : eBay Guides

  K&E Bridal Shop Many couples are now incorporating unity candles into their wedding ceremonies. Some churches now have specific wording that can be used for this portion of the ceremony, which uses two taper candles, representing the couples as individuals, and a single center candle, symbolizing their commitment to each other. The two tapers may be lit prior to the ceremony by attendants, or may be lit by the parents of the bride and groom during the unity candle portion of the ceremony. The bride and groom each take one taper, and blending the flames together, light the single center candle, which is often decorated. A few tips about using a unity candle: Be sure there is a place set up for the candles prior to the ceremony, such as a small table near the altar. Light the wicks of all three candles for a moment prior to the ceremony. New candles can be stubborn the first time they're used. Remember to have matches! Ask a groomsman to tuck some into his pocket, just in case.The bride and groom should decide before the ceremony whether they will extinguish their tapers after lighting the unity candle, or whether they will simply place them back in their holders still lit. Either is appropriate. Talk through this portion of the ceremony during the wedding rehearsal to make sure everyone knows what they're supposed to be doing. This is especially important if parents or other family members will be involved.