When planning a special event like a wedding - do not get too caught up in major details.  The reception venue is taken care of if catered and in a rented space.  There are many TV shows on now that show how to do it for less.  (Less is to go to an all inclusive resort and let all guests celebrate.)  The most important thing is that you love each other and you have decided to get married - so naturally it requires some celebration. 

     Weddings are fun for all the people who love and care about you; a celebration of new chapter of your life and to wish you well.  Even people that you think would not want to be invited usually do want to be there.  Sometimes the guest list is hard to finalize. 

     The most important thing is for you and your future spouse to have a fun!  To Enjoy your day.  Do not be so caught up that you miss out on your special day.  Remember to sit back and savor the moments, the joy, the friends, the moment in time when you became united in marriage with the person you have chosen to spend your life with.   Make it one joyous event!

     The main point I am trying to emphasize it --Do not miss your wedding because you were so caught up in the details- stay in the moment and be happy!! And Have a Blast!!