I RECENTLY SOLD AN ITEM TO SOMEONE AND WAS IN TOO MUCH OF A HURRY TO LEAVE THEM "20 STAR SUPER BUYER FEEDBACK" BEFORE THE ENTIRE TRANSACTION WAS COMPLETED. EEEEEEK!!!!!!!!I WAS CAUGHT COMPLETELY OFF GUARD, SINCE I ALWAYS TRY TO " DO THE RIGHT THING" LIKE A KID, I THOUGHT I WAS REALLY DOING SOMETHING SPECIAL SENDING OFF THIS "PRISTINE HEADVASE " I EVEN THREW IN A FAUX FUR WRAP - THAT COST ME 20 BUCKS TO SURPRISE AND THANK THE BUYER. ????????======BACK TO THIS LATER. ******************************************** FOR ANYONE OUT THERE - NEW TO SELLING HEADVASES LIKE ME ***I LITERALLY JUMPED IN JUST TO HELP OUT A FEW FRIENDS _ I DO NOT COLLECT HEADVASES - AS YOU MIGHT SHOW ME A BILLION DOLLAR RARE COIN - I WOULD NOT KNOW THE DIFFERENCE IF IT WAS WORTH 24 CENTS****** THAT SAID*******WHEN I SELL HEADVASES ******I CREATED A DISCLAIMER*******~~~~~ TO LET THE SERIOUS COLLECTORS AND EXPERTS * WHO KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT THIS PARTICULAR WORLD OF VINTAGE HEADVASES.THAT I KNOW NOTHING * AND I LOOK AT AND DESCRIBE HEADVASES LIKE I MIGHT A DINNER PLATE....and only see obvious stuff ****** *******stating" PLEASE DO NOT BID ON MY ITEMS AS I MAY NOT AND CANNOT KNOW WHAT I MAY HAVE MISSED.... DOES IT WORK NO!!!!! - BIDDERS JUST LOOK AT THE PICTURES AND DON'T SEEM TO TAKE THE TIME TO READ THE VIP STUFF~~~~~~~~ ~~~~~~!!!!!!!!! BEWARE THE EXPERT WHO FAILS TO READ YOUR DISCLAIMER AND DRIVES YOU CRAZY WITH COMPLIANTS AND INJUSTICES - DESPITE THE TIME AND EFFORT YOU SPEND IN CREATING A COMPREHENSIVE DISCLAIMER TO " KEEP OUT THE SERIOUS AND PASSIONATE HEADVASE EXPERTS *** I DON'T KNOW HOW MANY MORE WAYS TO LET THE PROS KNOW ******HOW MUCH I DON'T KNOW ABOUT THESE HEADVASES !!!!!!!*************************** I RECENTLY HAD A DREAM CUSTOMER TRANSFORM INTO A NIGHTMARE **** EEEEEK! - WHICH ENDED IN HIS LEAVING NEGATIVE FEEDBACK * WHILE I'M WAITING FOR A RESPONSE TO MY OFFER TO REFUND HIS MONEY IN FULL TO MAKE HIM HAPPY AND NOT LEAVING HIM FEELING STUCK WITH an item he DEEMED NEEDED EXPENSIVE / COSTLY REPAIRS TO REMOVE THE EARINGS SHE ARRIVED WITH AND FIND THE EXACT SIZE SHAPE AND YEAR OF PEARL STUDS THAT THIS GAL LEFT THE FACTORY WITH ???????!!!!!!!!!! AND I "SHOULD" - REFUND HIM AROUND 25 BUCKS - TOWARDS THIS " REPAIR " THE LADY I WAS SELLING IT FOR ****THAT'S THE WAY SHE GAVE IT TO ME - HE MISUNDERSTOOD AND THOUGHT I REMOVED HER ORIGINAL JEWELRY AND REPLACED IT WITH WALMART CHEAP JUNK ~~~~~~~~~~~~NOTHING WORKED - HE INSISTED ON HIS CONCEPT THAT THIS LISTING WAS A GROSS MIS-REPRESENTATION AND WHEN I OFFERED HIM A FULL REFUND TO MAKE THIS ALL OK - HE GOT REALLY PISSED--------KEPT THE ITEM - NEVER WROTE ME BACK AND LEFT NEGATIVE FEEDBACK HUH?????? ***** I WAS SHOCKED!!!!!HELP!!!!!! AGAIN - I SINCERELY THOUGHT I WAS DOING THE KIND THING FOR BOTH PARTIES - THE PERSON I WAS HELPING WAS WILLING TO RETURN HIS MONEY - AND END THE CONVERSATION....DIDN'T WORK - I GOT HURT - JUST GOES TO SHOW YA *** ....JUST ANOTHER LESSON IN LIFE - THE ONLY THING YOU CAN MIND AND MANAGE * IS YOUR OWN - STAY WITH YOUR HEART AND SPIRIT AND LET THE REST GO. *********** I WAS DANCING IN THE SUN WHILE HE WAS WORKING ON A STORM!!!! MAGICALMOMENTS4U