I wanted to reach out to others on eBay that have gone through the ordeal of being stalked by a total stranger as we have. Anyone searching the net under (eBay stalking) will find this and know they aren't alone!

I use this eBay account...enchanted_grove.. for buying items now on ebay but have other ebay accounts that we use for me to be able to sell (under my field)...... using a different name,state and have changed my name through ebay and on paypal accounts appearing now to be (another seller) on all my paper trails. I have done this to be able to (sell in peace) and also to protect my home and family. I will once in a while in a blue moon list something for sale on ebay under..enchanted_grove...Using my real name and personal bank account...Just to throw off this ( mindless idiot ) stalker that has targeted me on ebay this last year and continues to do so to this day! I make my selling  feedback as  private as possible due to this ebay stalker contacting my past buyer's and pretending to be a unhappy customer of mine..!! Thank god, I never gave anyone my websites that I also sell items on!!

I'm very glad this did happen to me in my life because it made me aware of how loose I was toward giving out my personal information to ( faceless strangers ) over the net and posting on the net logging in with my private email account and now I have another new email account used just for public comments and posts on the net with a online name!

I am aware that while most people buying and emailing you are kind and well meaning people that are honest and educated adults looking to just have pleasant trading with others! but sadly In 2009... there are those that lurk online and are twisted stalkers..that are mostly middle aged, under educated, over weight, unhappy, alone and bored in life, unstable people with a history of having social problems in the (real world ) so they turn toward the net! so they may hide behind a screen! they will prey on your kindness and trust with lies and games but they are in fact now (stalking you) and feeling that they have a right to push their personal attention's on you and be involved in your private life and private information and in your entire world. 

My eBay stalker not only posted he was on medication from a doctor for depression but went as far as to post on a public net site that he had a history of family mental disorders and even family suicide! all of this came from the police tracing back his private email addresses used to stalk my family. My advise to anyone being stalked is don't try to REASON or HELP the person..They are stalkers and you are a total stranger! and they are very ill! They need a mental health doctor not your kindness! That only makes them worse wanting your attention..negative attention is a also a form of attention to them! don't go to any eBay or net sites you know they go or post at! don't look up anything they are doing against you! ask others to please Not inform you as you don't care because the person is very ill and needs medical help not your energy and time or attention.

It's very simple....... the stalker attempts to contact you to invade your world in (many forms) through personal force or other 3rd party people or business dealings or letter's or phone calls through pretending to be other people even changing their sex from (male to female) in emails. Getting your private info either real or made up just to get a reaction from you! Using public blogs and threads posting about you to degrade or belittle you in public even posting your photos they steal off myspace or your own private sites!

You just don't respond or react or care!.... Refuse to even talk to anyone other then personal friends and family in person about the stalker! He is dead in your eyes and life!..SILENCE..along with not looking at anything the stalker (sends your way) is the key to ending the stalking experience in your life! I live my life in the full open view and don't fear or care how this man wastes his time making himself look crazy in public...fixed on me!

Stalking is a crime! and Stalker's have criminal minds and are (master liars)..this man sells haunted dolls,regular dolls,toys and vintage items on eBay then he starts his own eBay threads with first his real ebay account then changing to ones with either( 0 or 1 or 11 or some more) feedback scores. His (many other) eBay accounts that he uses ( false info ) and new (eBay user names ) switches between male and female..

STARTING these threads on eBay to post and degrade the other haunted doll sellers in his same selling field. He would even move from eBay site to site saying how disgusted he was at (their scam )when he was indeed one of them! They also were public tools where he also degraded certain ebay sellers in (different selling fields) that he was stalking on line! Stalkers are what people use to call messy, trouble makers and we all just use to avoid them in public! stalkers enjoy causing fights between people and on threads then just sitting back and watching! Using others feelings and hurting people is...just.. simple entertainment to stalkers! They seek constant negative dramas and to control others and the public floor!! give them neither!   

I do very well in my auctions on eBay still selling in the ( my same old fields ) but to ensure my peace I  have changed how I work on eBay. I have even changed (my style ) when listing and use different terms and wording and even designs for my auctions now when I list and my other eBay Ids have went by (unnoticed ) by this (so called ) smart, well traveled,educated stalker.... which he loves to pretends to be!

In the real world he was proven to be a middle aged balding man with very little education working a ( hands on trade job) with very little training.Which is easy to see in his eBay auctions using huge print like he is just learning to read and write also saying for example...see..instead of the word... sale..or leaving letters out all together. This man even forgets to post photos or displays broken or dirty objects with the item in his photo's. My point isn't to make fun of the poor guy but allow others being stalked to know that stalkers pretend to be living in a world they are not! and to be someone they are not! Stalkers degrade their target out of mental illness and self hate! How do I know Stalkers are also mentally ill? and what are the sign's of a stalker? Ask yourself this question..If you got mad at a (total stranger) online for whatever reason WOULD I EVER....?

Pretend to be other people to talk to them in emails.. all at the same time?

Buy items from them just to get their address and phone number?

Buy items from them just to get their paypal account holders name?

Start threads about what ( they sell ) so you can draw attention to them and degrade them even their kids? Example..Book sellers are they honest people?

Goggle and Zillow and map quest their home address and print out copies?

Post that you plan to come to their home when you are states away?

Steal and copy photos of them and their family from myspace or items they list on eBay and use them in your eBay auctions or post them on the net?

Pay money for a detailed background report on people search? for info on a total stranger?

Would you call their home phone pretending to look for someone just to talk with them? then post they sound like they have a cold.. online?

Hang up all hours of the night? to someone you have never seen? Someone with a small child at home answering the phone?

Post their private info (even lies) about their marriages or children or sex life or money matters on line? Private things you could never know?

Print out all things they sell on eBay and who bought what item and when and for over a year? watching their feedback everyday?

Contact people from the strangers feedback pretending to be a former buyer?

Send insulting...name calling emails to them.. then forward their responses to you...to others hoping to get other (unknowing people) involved or to help you get info on you? then ask friends and family to contact them also?

Would you open new bogus eBay accounts with no feedback so you could bid on their items they list and win and not pay! over and over and over?

Would you ask your friends to bid and buy their items for you! so to a connection with the stranger? then post your friends know them!

Would you make up mock auctions using their real names and photos to degrade someone you have never met before? because they have rejected you?..Example..for sale on eBay...Ugly, Fat Bear Named MARIA!.. Bear from TAMPA!.. Does Smell!..WITCH OWNED! 

Would you drive hundreds of miles and states away on a weekend to snap photos of their home and family from the road then drive home and post the photos to let them know you were there? and call from a local phone booth?

Would you use different eBay IDs to (vote down) a guide written by this stranger because they were trying to help others avoid their mistakes made on eBay?

The answers to all the above is....NO!.. of course not! You just would never deal or contact the stranger again and just move on!...because your a normal person ! all of the above and more was done to me by a twisted minded stalker and some other people that have emailed me..This stalker is surfing and selling on eBay.